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Collected Item: “This is what marriage looks like”

Your Name

Alyssa Hester

Your Pronouns

she/they

Instagram handle, if any

alyssa_hester10

Work Title

This is what marriage looks like

Work Year (We are not accepting images older than 5 years)

2026

[Image Rights] Do you confirm that you hold the rights to this image?

Yes

[Eligibility] The Curve Photo Contest proudly centers and uplifts people who identify as lesbian, bisexual, transgender, and queer women and nonbinary people. Please share how you self-identify, using language that feels most accurate to you. Feel free to include all intersections of your identity. (Examples: lesbian, trans person of color, Latinx queer woman, radical faery, butch, etc.)

Black, latina, queer woman

[Artist Statement] Tell us more about your photo by sharing a brief artist statement OR answering this prompt: "This is what being ______ means to me..." (Max. 100 words)

This photo is of my partner and I while we were on a black sand beach in Iceland. We recently got engaged in a more traditional way with rings and an engagement party. This trip was an additional celebration of our engagement. At sunset on the beach, I asked her to marry me again with the most beautiful pebble I could find. For penguins offering pebbles represents lifelong courtship. Asking her this way felt like a reminder that queer people have always created our own love and lifelong partnerships, regardless of laws. Our pebble represents life and sunsets together.

[Visual Description] Describe your photo so we can provide alt-text. Example: "Two women holding hands and smiling as they walk in a pride parade, surrounded by rainbow flags."

A woman holding a black pebble offering the pebble to another woman in the sunset

[Agreement] In the event that you win the 2026 Curve Photo Contest, do you consent to having your photograph printed for the sole purpose of displaying at The Curve Foundation's one-day event at Yerba Buena Center for the Arts (San Francisco, CA) during Lesbian Visibility Week? The Curve Foundation will cover printing costs, but will not cover costs for mailing the print after the event ends.

Yes

[Agreement] Do you consent to The Curve Foundation storing, sharing, and using this image and its description as we deem appropriate, including disseminating on our social media, website, and Curve Archive and Curve Quarterly?

Yes

[Agreement] By checking 'I understand' below, I acknowledge that this contest upholds values of diversity, equity, and inclusion, and I confirm that my submission does not contain anti-LGBTQ+ or other discriminatory, hateful, or exclusionary content.

I understand
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